Monday, January 13, 2014
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I work at the Santa Barbara Museum of Natural History where I lead students in our Outdoor Nature Exploration program. I hear amazing things from kids. This blog is a chance to share the quotes, stories, and insights. Most students are very uncomfortable being outside. Some are terrified. Indoor childhoods have robbed kids of the very personal connection to nature that I experienced as a free-range kid of the fifties. With just a bit of encouragement, kids go from fear to wonder and curiosity in a very short time. There seems to be a genetic memory of the natural connection children feel with the natural world. After all, this was how children developed for eons of human history. We know that children who have unstructured time to play in a natural setting are happier, healthier, and smarter. It's time to reconnect children and nature.
Helpful Hints for adults taking kids outside
Do more and talk less.
Dirt is good for kids. Soap and water are adequate clean up measures.
Nature is
amazing and children are naturally curious. Allow them the experience. Don’t
pass your fears to your kids.
Relax
and let the kids decide what they want to do. "Let's look for something interesting" is a good way to start. Follow the kids' interest, not your own agenda. With small children, you'll take a very short walk for a long time. They are close to the ground and will see more than you.
Your
choice of words can make a big difference. Instead of “Be careful,” which
expresses your fears, tell the kids to “Be smart!” “Be aware.”
“Look where you are going.” “IF
you fall, get up!"
Cuts,
bumps, and bruises are a normal part of childhood. If a child has an
accident, don’t
panic. Children read you! When the child is calm, ask, “What did you
learn?” They will tell you. Expect children to learn from these mistakes. You did! It's empowering. Assure a child that it won't hurt forever.
Encourage trial and error. Give a child a
chance to meet challenges and assess risk.
This is how kids develop self-confidence. Encouragement acknowledges the difficulty and expresses confidence in the child's ability to master the task.
Let
them figure things out for themselves.
Problem-solving is good for kids.
Kids that experience non-structured play in natural settings are
smarter, happier, and healthier.
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